That’s really all it’s about, staying excited.
From the initial contact, to the first meeting, to becoming a repeat, it’s all about keeping a sense of a spark. The spark looks different for everyone, and sometimes it feels a little odd or uncomfortable.
Like a regular that wants you to be extra physical with them. As a gentle person by nature, being put into this role feels weird. For example being asked to aggressively slap someone across the face while penetrating them. Or being asked to bite a neck or nipple harder than you’d feel comfortable doing.